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| Photo Credit: Karri Carberry |
Valentine’s Day is fast approaching--along with all the
romance, roses and chocolate traditionally part of the day's celebration.
But here’s the thing. Why should Valentine’s Day be reserved
for romance alone? Why don't we celebrate love itself?
A Canadian resident, Karri Carberry,
19, was introduced to a band called “Three Days Grace” by her Dad a number of
years ago, a passion they happily shared. So when the band was scheduled to
play in Edmonton, Alberta, she immediately got tickets and invited her Dad to
come with. There was just one hiccup; her Dad is now deaf. This, however, did
not deter either of them. Karri
interpreted the lyrics in sign language for her Dad, so he too could
enjoy the concert. When other members of the audience – at first annoyed by
Karri’s signing (“What is that girl up to?!”) – realized what she was doing,
they were astounded, and ended up entranced by her interaction with her Dad.
No greater love hath a daughter!
This, to me, is the true meaning of
Valentine’s Day. A recognition of the love we have for each other, and a
celebration of that love through words and actions that reflect it. Yes,
flowers and romantic dinners are marvelous. But so is signing for your deaf
Dad, taking over the family chores so Mom can have a day to herself, and
encouraging your little sister that yes, she can be president one day.
Love comes in many forms, and can be
expressed in a myriad of ways. Be mindful of just what would spell “love” to
those you cherish. Don’t restrict yourself to tangible things. On the contrary,
open yourself, for example, to how valuable appreciation, praise and
encouragement are.
Think back to what it felt like when
someone let you know that you were worthy, capable, or that you inspired them
to be more than they thought they could be. That’s love! Just because it didn’t
come on Valentine’s Day wrapped in a gold ribbon is it any less special.
This Valentine’s Day, give what is most
precious to those you love, in ways that will touch them deeply. This
Valentine’s Day, celebrate love! You’ll be loving yourself in the process.
