What if you had a way to feel better, that’s always available, costs nothing and has none of those dreaded side effects? In this podcast, you’ll be introduced to a simple shift of perspective that can transform your not-so-wonderful moments into a feel-good solution, quickly and easily.
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Sometimes it can seem like everybody else has life handled in a successful way that totally eludes you. And yet, you have unique talents, skills and qualities that others don’t. In this podcast, you’ll explore what comparing yourself to others really does and be introduced to ways to get out of that comparison game altogether.
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Just how powerful are negative thoughts or words you launch at your partner? Do they really damage your relationship when they know perfectly well that you love them? In a word, yes! In this podcast, you’ll discover how to deal with those negative thoughts/words not by becoming an insincere Pollyanna, but with a way to work with them to make your relationship better and better.
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Sure, office gossip is fun. Who doesn’t relish the latest dirt on you-know-who? But what if that “fun” interferes with your getting ahead? Hmm. In this podcast, find out why gossip is counter-productive to your success and how to handle it without turning into an anti-gossip snob.
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One of my pet peeves (I, who spend entirely too much time driving the California freeways) is drivers who don’t use their turn signals. Come on, when traveling down the freeway, the last thing you need is some driver cutting in front of you without even the hint of a warning. Namely, said turn signal.
Turn signals were invented for a reason: safety! It’s just dangerous not to let fellow occupants of the road know what you’re about to do. Plus, to my mind, it’s disrespectful and discourteous. So there.
But the other day, after spending a good 10 minutes ranting, albeit silently and alone in my car, about the latest no-turn-signal driver’s behavior, a saying flashed through my mind: “Not my circus, not my monkeys.” As in, that driver’s behavior, and others like theirs, isn’t mine to fix or correct, so not my “circus,” and they are definitely “not my monkeys.”
Huh. So I just wasted 10 precious minutes of my life on something that isn’t my business in the first place, and about which I can do absolutely nothing. Talk about a wake-up call! I started logging how much time I focus on circuses that aren’t mine, trying to corral monkeys that aren’t mine either. In a word, too much.
I put myself on a “circus and monkeys” diet. Now, when I catch myself obsessing about something like that, I switch my focus as quickly as possible to something pleasing to focus on, like the beauty of nature all around us. Or on something that is in my “circus and monkey” domain, like how to handle a problematic work situation.
Life is too valuable to waste
on situations we can do nothing about. So give up other people’s circuses! They
are not worth your time or your energy. Tend to your own monkeys, your life
will be better for it.
Why is it the voice in your head criticizes you non-stop? What if you instead talked yourself up, not down? Would anything change? Yes, indeed! In this podcast, you’ll be introduced to some easy techniques that can power you into the land of “up” not “down” to greater happiness and success!
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No, your world won’t come to a complete stop if you get your face out of your devices from time to time. On the contrary, in this podcast, explore how using your eyes as well as your ears to communicate with people puts you ahead of the game, whether that’s at work, at home, or even at the gym!
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As I stood in line waiting for a table last week, a couple of people were leaving the restaurant. One of them was complaining about the fo...
